What do I do when my 14 year old son is out of control?

What do I do when my 14 year old son is out of control?

Below are my eight practical steps you can take today to manage your acting-out kids.

1. Stop Blaming Yourself for Your Child’s Behavior.
2. Don’t Get Sucked Into Arguments.
3. Use “Pull-ups”
4. Don’t Personalize Your Child’s Behavior.
5. Run Your Home Based on Your Belief System.
6. Be a Role Model.
7. Try Not to Overreact.

How do you punish a teenager that won’t listen?

Here are some tips for setting clear limits:

1. Involve your child in working out limits and rules.
2. Be clear about the behaviour you expect.
3. Discuss responsibilities with your child.
4. Agree in advance with your child on what the consequences will be if they don’t stick to the rules you’ve agreed on.

What to do with a teenager that is out of control?

Teenager Control: The Top 3

1. Lay down the law. Do not allow places in your expectations that are free for interpretation.
2. Communicate calmly. You should initiate a conversation with your teen about their troubling behavior.
3. Focus on follow through. Leaving room for leniency in your disciplinary efforts is a no go.

Why is my 14 year old so angry?

Moodiness and anger in teenage boys is a common issue that parents deal with. “Normal” anger appears shortly after puberty begins. It often stems from a teen’s desire to be more independent from his parents and his frustration that he can’t yet enjoy the freedoms of an adult.

What should a 14 year old be doing?

At this age, they are starting high school, developing their unique identity, gaining independence, and likely exploring (or thinking about) romantic relationships. It’s an important time to ensure you’re giving your child plenty of supportive guidance and helping them gain the skills they need for a successful future.