How do INTJs act when hurt?
INTJs are rather sensitive to certain actions, or signs of betrayal. If someone goes behind their back or does not defend them when they are being talked about poorly, the INTJ will be extremely hurt by this. When they let someone close they want that person to remain loyal to that connection and relationship.
How do you comfort an INTJ?
Here are some suggestions that don’t run counter to our personality type.
- Subtly do something nice for someone. When INTJs express emotions, they tend to do it in a kinesthetic way.
- Be present.
- Focus on the happy.
- Name your feelings.
- Mirror others.
- Tell a story.
- Let it out in private.
- Touch and feel.
How do INTJ process emotions?
INTJs use introverted feeling but because it is a tertiary function, they do so to a lesser degree than they use the dominant and auxiliary functions. Those who develop this aspect of their personalities more fully pay greater attention to values and feelings when making decisions.
What to do when an INTJ is mad at you?
They don’t need to apply too much focus on their feelings, since that would actually become draining and counterproductive for the INTJ. Simply accepting when they are upset or angry and finding a healthy way to express that anger, can help the INTJ move on and let go of whatever was bothering them in that moment.
How do INTJs talk about feelings?
For the INTJ one of the best and most efficient ways to express their feelings, is by addressing and writing about them. They can often find it much more comfortable writing these thoughts and emotions down, rather than having to express them verbally.
Why do INTJs cry?
INTJs will cry because they have gone far too long without allowing themselves to pay attention to their own emotions, and finally they force their way out through their tear ducts. INTJs will often attempt to keep this to themselves, and will not want it to happen in front of another person.
Are INTJ vindictive?
INTJs can certainly be vengeful people, especially when they are younger. They will not go after someone for no reason, and will only do this when they feel someone needs to be put in their place. When the INTJ witnesses someone attacking their livelihood or their loved ones, they will become angered by this.
What are the signs that you are an INTJ?
Signs That You’re an INTJ. 1. You have a sixth sense for inefficiency…. You often sense the problems in a system as soon as you look at it—whether it’s how a restaurant is set up, a client’s Internet marketing plan, or the features and settings on an app.
Why do intjs hate close relationships so much?
Because of the judging attribute, INTJs dislike relationships where ambiguity, and lack of concreteness is the normal state of things. They put a lot of effort into their close relationships.
What causes an INTJ to downgrade a relationship?
Random, out-of-context nonsense that doesn’t (T-I-E) teach, inform, or engage; or conversation with no real purpose other than wanting to hear your own voice, can cause an INTJ to downgrade the relationship.
Do intjs like to talk about the weather?
If that’s you, and there’s no significant reason to talk about the weather, then you can expect the INTJ’s reply as reflected in the last line of that lyric: “Oh, you’re wasting my time. . .you’re just, just wasting time.” It’s not that INTJs don’t want to spend time with people they love and are close to, instead, INTJs love efficiency.