Is the narcissist getting ready to discard you?
In doing this, the narcissist betrays their intent with signs they are getting ready to discard you. This gives you the opportunity to take back your power & make some decisions of your own. Let’s check them out. To find replacement supply, the narcissist begins to hunt.
What happens when you share things with a narcissist?
Things get a lot more complicated if you share finances, children, or a home with the narcissist. The discard phase will be a drawn-out process where you’re made to feel worthless and undeserving of any of the things you shared.
Do you feel stuck in a toxic relationship with a narcissist?
Sometimes you might find yourself in a situation where a toxic narcissist, constantly seeks to keep you closer to him no matter how hard you try to push him away. In this case, you might feel stuck in the toxic relationship not knowing what to do to make the narcissist discard you and leave you alone.
Do narcissists Miss you when they move on?
What they do miss is your narcissistic supply. That is if they don’t end up getting it from somewhere else. If they are able to move on to get their narcissistic supply from elsewhere, then they most definitely will appear to forget you exist.
How to get a narcissist to stop devaluing you?
When the narcissist comes back believing they can reel you in again, let them know they are no longer welcome in your life. The negative words they devalued you with can be used to justify why the relationship is no longer viable. This will undoubtedly anger the narcissist, but in the long run, it will save you considerable heartache.
How do you break the cycle of narcissistic abuse?
Whilst you’re still feeding the narcissist with supply through your reactions, you will remain in the cycle of abuse. Breaking the cycle starts with emotionally unhooking. Nothing hurts a narcissist more than being ignored as it makes them feel insignificant and meaningless, which is their greatest fear.
Why do narcissists feel devastated when they lose supply?
That is why the devastation they feel at the loss of supply is not due to the loss of the survivor, but rather, the loss of power they once held over the survivor. Narcissists rely on narcissistic supply (anything in the form of praise, money, gifts, sex, attention, etc.) to survive their daily experience.
When do narcissists discontinue their partners?
But, as devastating as it is, the truth is almost all narcissists discard their partners during important life events, special occasions, and devastating losses. It’s one of their blueprint manipulations. When the narcissist decides it’s time to discard you, nothing is sacred.
What does it mean when a narcissist says they miss you?
They miss you as a source of narcissistic supply, which, in case you’re new around here, means that you offered them attention, validation, and maybe even admiration – all the “supply” they needed to feed their ego.
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What does it mean when the narcissist says things aren’t working out?
Therefore, when the narcissist says things aren’t working out with the new supply and that they made a mistake, you’re feeling that maybe there’s something about you that the narcissist prefers. This is a story we make up in our minds because we haven’t yet accepted that the narcissist simply cannot emotionally bond with anyone.
Does the narcissist prefer you over the new supply?
In your heart, you may want very much for the narcissist to prefer you over the new supply but, the fact is, narcissists don’t really miss any of their former supply sources. Narcissists don’t stay in relationships because they emotionally bond with their partner (s). Narcissists typically have what is called an avoidant attachment style.
What does it mean when a narcissist wants to be friends?
The narcissist might be telling you they made a mistake. Or, maybe they convinced you to be friends after the two of you broke up or after they discarded you, and now you’re hearing all about the new supply, how things aren’t working out, and how they’re trying to figure out a way to get back with you.