Why do you suddenly dislike someone?
It is common for people to start hating people that they love or care about because either their expectations or needs haven’t been met. It sounds that there is some resentment that kicked in before you started hating them.
Can you be in love with someone and hate them?
In a set of 2014 experiments, researchers found evidence to suggest that thinking about romantic partners can provoke both positive and negative emotions. In other words, you can simultaneously love and hate your partner.
Why do I feel hatred for people?
Often, experiences that we’ve had with others can inspire a feeling of hatred, especially if we’ve been treated poorly by a specific individual (think former spouse or annoying co-worker) or group. Hate is an emotion. It dwells somewhere between anger, fear and disgust. At its worst, hatred can inspire violent acts.
Do you think people around you secretly hate you?
Thinking the people around you secretly hate you or don’t want to be around you is a common experience for those dealing with mental illness. When your brain is being cruel to you, it doesn’t just affect you, it can often extend to how you interact with others.
What is the best course for resolving feelings of hate?
The best course for resolving feelings of hate can depend upon the situation. If you feel hatred toward a person or group you don’t understand, lead with empathy (the ability to understand and share the feelings of another) and compassion (engaging in an act of kindness). These are antidotes to hate.
How do you deal with a coworker who hates you?
Consider engaging in an intentional act of kindness either toward the person or with the person in mind, such as buying a hated co-worker a cup of coffee or making a donation to a cause that your former spouse supports. Who can you talk to about these feelings of hatred?