What do you hate about ESTJs?
They dislike “gray areas” and usually have very strong core values and morals. Moral ambiguity and rule-breaking can be very frustrating to them. ESTJs trust facts and logical data before they look inward to their emotions. They tend to distrust emotional decision making because it has a tendency to result in biases.
What is wrong with ESTJs?
Because ESTJs have inferior Introverted Feeling (Fi), they can risk seeing it as overly-sensitive, useless, time-wasting, weak, or self-absorbed. They may repress this function in themselves or devalue it in other people. This can cause conflict between ESTJs and FP personality types.
Can ESTJs be nice?
ESTJs are social and outgoing people, who enjoy being able to make new friends. They can be a bit aggressive, but at the same time they are friendly people. If they are in a great mood they will often be friendly with everyone they meet, and will enjoy being able to make new friends.
Why do ESTJs hate ENTPs?
The ESTJs also hate the ENTPs as children and/or employees. They think they are defective and are not like “other normal kids”, which really drives ENTPs crazy because ENTPs will NEVER want to be “normal” or “like other kids”. I have an ESTJ dad and our life was absolutely miserable together.
Are ESTJs stubborn?
Because ESTJs value hard-work and productivity to such a high degree they can be very stubborn about their decisions and plans. They don’t like dilly-dallying around or wasting time, so if they’ve come up with a plan that seems effective they want to move forward quickly.
What hurts Estj the most?
ESTJ personality types tend to be stressed and drained by…
- Disorganization and chaos around them.
- Inconsistent relationships with others.
- Emotional or vulnerable situations.
- Disappointments from other people.
- Unfamiliar experiences and unexpected change.
Why do I love ESTJs?
The ESTJ personality type makes a solid and reliable partner. They believe in hard work, keeping their commitments, and shielding their loved ones from any possible unpleasantness of life. ESTJs are very family-oriented and enjoy social interaction, especially if it includes family or close friends.
Are ESTJs good in relationships?
ESTJs go after what they want and don’t believe in allowing anything to hold them back, and this goes for love and romance. When they know that they care for someone and can really see a future with them, the ESTJ will do whatever it takes to make this relationship work.
How do ESTJ’s show Love?
ESTJs show love by protecting their loved ones. Sometimes this means a stern word of correction or rebuke. When they do so, you can safely interpret their intentions as wanting to protect you.
How do ESTJ’s express their inner feelings?
Focusing on the needs of the person they love is how the ESTJ shows they care and express their inner feelings. They will go out of their way to make sure their significant other has everything they need and is completely cared for without worries.
How do ESTJ’s react to compliments?
When their partners show verbal affirmation and reciprocate their acts of service – ESTJs feel that all that they’ve done is worth it. Even though ESTJs appear stoic and don’t seem to care much for compliments, they desire it very much.