Why do some men crossdress?
For instance the lack of male role model or the way that a boy is raised in childhood could affect their perceptions and feelings about gender. Some suggest that men who crossdress may have lost a close family relative and may crossdress as a way of connecting to their memories.
How can cross dressing counselling help men?
Cross dressing counselling can help men to better understand the compulsion they feel and to become more happy, comfortable and confident in themselves. I also help families and friends of men who crossdress, to both understand the issue better and to help them express their feelings and become more comfortable with it. Why do men crossdress?
How to come out of the closet as a married crossdresser?
You’re a married crossdresser (or living with a significant other), but not out of the closet yet and not quite ready to come out. How can you shave your legs without explaining why? Honestly, you should really just come clean and tell your love interest the truth. That is the best thing to do, although it may not be the easiest.
Should you let your significant other see your shaved legs?
Perhaps more so at first, until you get used to them being shaved. It’s probably a good idea to hide this fact and try not to let your significant other see you itching your shaved legs. If you shaved them under the guise of itching relief, you need to show that you are indeed feeling relieved and no longer as itchy.
He feels crossdressing allows him the freedom of expression that isn’t otherwise allowed. And this is something a lot of men struggle with, in some way or another. Most don’t resort to crossdressing, but rather just bury those parts of themselves. We are taught growing up that certain expressions (crying, for example) are not manly.
What are some of the misconceptions about men who cross-dress?
There are also many misconceptions about men who cross-dress, such as: 1. They are gay. Cross-dressers are not necessarily gay. The incidence of homosexuality or bisexuality among cross-dressers is same as in the population in general. 2. They don’t like women. They do. Most men who cross-dress are married. 3. They do it for sexual gratification.
Do crossdressers feel guilt and shame?
Partners of crossdressers can often fear that their boyfriend or husband wants to have a relationship with a man, as a woman. But often crossdressing is not primarily a sexual thing, it is more to do with identity. A lot of people drawn to crossdressing can have strong feelings of guilt, shame and self-hatred.
Should you be worried if a loved one is crossdressing?
If you’ve recently realised that a man or boy in your life is crossdressing you probably have many questions. Many people are concerned, worried, even in a state of shock at the news that a loved one is crossdressing.