What does it mean when your ex still hates you?
It’s common for an ex-romantic partner to feel like they hate the person who broke up with them—or that they hate the person they broke up with. If you’ve broken up with someone, they may feel like they hate you because you caused them pain by rejecting them.
How do you deal with an ex who hates you?
My Ex Hates Me: 5 Things You Can Do
- Respect how they feel. I know, I know, when someone hates you it can feel incredibly unfair.
- Give it time. When a break up is fresh, emotions are raw.
- Don’t try to ‘win’ the breakup. A breakup can often move into an odd passive aggressive battle for power.
- Let them hate you.
Why is my ex so bitter towards me?
Why your ex might still be bitter According to breakup coach Natalia Juarez, it’s often due to victim mentality. If your ex cheated on your or betrayed you, you can’t help but feel angry towards the person. Some exes, on the other hand, feel that their previous partners didn’t try that hard to salvage the relationship.
Why are exes spiteful?
People do spiteful things when they feel hurt. Or perhaps they’ve felt powerless before, and now have found a position of “superiority” over you, at least for a moment. Ex may be stuck in the past, “needing” to one-up you, but you do not have to be there or go there.
Why does my ex want to hurt me?
The only reason i can think of why an ex would try to hurt you is because he/she still has feelings for you that are strong enough to make an effort to hurt you. The goal of this is to get a reaction out of you, to get your attention or just to see you suffer.
Why do I despise my ex?
People may continue hating an ex because moving forward feels akin to forgiving the transgressor. Staying angry could be a way of taking revenge against an ex, or in other cases it could be a way to stay connected to the person. Detaching from an ex can be anxiety-provoking and require significant courage.
How can I get revenge on my ex?
Here are some of the most inventive and dastardly ways men and women have got revenge on their cheating other halves:
- Get public.
- Target his/her favourite possession.
- Think outside of the box.
- Plan, plan, plan.
- Patience is everything.
- Be prepared to spend money.
- Share your tips with others.
- Be creative.