Why are narcissists so cruel?
It’s normal to fight with your significant other, but narcissists can be incredibly cruel and threatening in heated situations. This is because they cannot see you as somebody they love, and someone who has angered them at the same time.
Can narcissists be nice to others?
They genuinely care about and like helping others. Narcissists, on the other hand, dont have that motivation since they severely lack empathy. Yet, by being or appearing to be helping and caring, a narcissist can get others to thank them and cheer them on for being such a nice person.
Why do narcissists want you to hate them?
The reason youve found yourself the target of narcissistic hatred is that they view love as a weakness and consequently, it repulses them. But, at the same time, it allows them to extract copious amounts of narcissistic supply. This is why they seem to hate you but wont let you go easily.
Why does a narcissist want to hurt you?
Narcissists lack empathy and they cannot relate to the emotional experiences of someone else. If the narcissist can hurt you first, then they can protect themselves from others hurting them. The blame-shifting and projection often seen from narcissists is how they direct attention off them and onto someone else.
What words do narcissists hate?
There are many words people high in narcissism don’t want to hear, but perhaps the worst involve a “no,” as in “No, you can’t,” “No, you’re wrong,” or — even worse — “No, I won’t.” This makes it difficult to go about your ordinary business with the people in your life who don’t understand the give-and-take of normal …
How do narcissists react when you leave them?
Narcissists hate losing their supply of attention, so they won’t let you go easily. Prepare for them to promise “to change.” They might suddenly start doing things for you that you’d been complaining about. They may say “you’ll be lost without me,” or “you’ll never find someone like me.” Don’t listen, Orloff advises.