Why do narcissists treat strangers better than family?
Narcissists are often nicer to complete strangers than they are to the people who are ‘closest’ to them because they haven’t yet calculated what they can get from the stranger; they have already sucked their closer contacts dry.
Why do narcissists fail in relationships?
Narcissists are unable to accept ownership or responsibility for any relational issues or personal problems. Narcissists blame others for their own failings—their ego is so fragile that they cannot tolerate any threat to their self-esteem.
Are Narcissists nice to anyone?
7. When narcissists are nice, they can be very nice; but if you still feel insecure, that is because it is a performance, not a true sentiment. Niceness is a tool for social survival — a means to get what they want, like needing a hammer to hang a picture.
Why you should never call a narcissist out?
The real reason why simply confronting a narcissist and calling them out for their behavior won’t work is simple: they’re not actually listening to you. If they truly are a narcissist, they have never been listening, and are especially unlikely to take any criticism or feedback on board.
Why is the narcissist being nice?
Narcissists, on the other hand, dont have that motivation since they severely lack empathy. Yet, by being or appearing to be helping and caring, a narcissist can get others to thank them and cheer them on for being such a nice person. This is what motivates them: validation that they are wonderful.
Why is the narcissist nice to everyone else?
They are adept at presenting to others a positive view of themselves. Through their manipulation tactics, a narcissist can influence how others view them. This includes them appearing to be caring, intelligent, and friendly so others see them as competent.